We all have pain. We all are hurt at times. How we deal with it defines the type of person we are. Some people bear it themselves and become stronger over time. Some spill it over to people around and they remain weak for ever. For them, hurting others seem to be the best medicine to lower their pain. They do this to cut their pain which never works. Sharing pain with a few can help but passing it on will only aggravate the situation; for them as well as others. Be strong.