He bears the pain. He doesn’t even talk about it. He knows; pain is not given by someone else. It’s self driven. He feels pain only by action of those he care about. He finds happiness in their company and so, he accepts his share of pain too. He has understood; running away from pain is not the solution. Embracing it will reduce the hurt and increase joy when received. He doesn’t know if this is right the way or not. He just lives it this way.