Winning relationships is easy. Genuinely try to understand the other person. However, we mostly want others to understand us. Rather than focussing on the other person, we want the spotlight on ourselves. Rather than loving unconditionally, we want to be loved. Rather than listening with intent, we want to talk. Rather than empathize with others, we want others to sympathize with us. Harsh but true. Reverse the order and you will find a different world. A world of happiness.